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Family unity: what is it, why it’s vital, and how to achieve it.

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Few would dispute that family unity is important to sustain a family enterprise over generations. There are too many examples of family conflict helping to bring a family down to dispute its importance. We would go further: we believe family unity is vital for the long-term success of a family or its enterprise. It’s true that some families that are fractured and unaligned are kept orderly —for a time—through hefty dividends, strong handed leadership, or emotional appeals to tradition. But when big decisions come up or dividends run out, the serious fractures and disputes within the family become visible and these divisions hobble and sometimes scuttle the family’s enterprise.

The effects of disunity are many. It can cause abrasive friction and slowness in group decisions and in day to day activities. Sometimes, because of disunity, a family group decides to just stand still to try to keep a peace that doesn’t really exist. Disunity generally leads to mistrust and guardedness (because the other faction doesn’t want what we want), the blocking of even simple actions that need to be taken, political maneuvering to seek advantages for one’s side, and if prolonged, to decline for the entire group. Even mild disunity can fester and grow into a serious problem and should be addressed.

Unity for any group has to do with members’ authentic agreement about what the group exists to do (its mission or purpose) and how the group will do this work and treat its stakeholders (its approach). For a family, such alignment creates a solid foundation for effective work by the family, whether in its operating business, investments, philanthropy or other activities.

Unity in a family on mission and approach doesn’t mean that family members are in lockstep on all issues or necessarily chummy. A united family can have disagreements on tactics and strategies— should we discard one management practice in favor of another, is now the right time to exit a certain line of business, etc. Some debate and challenging on strategy and tactics is actually essential to being effective as a group. Strong unity accepts that members of a group will disagree somewhat on some issues and debate strongly on others, and that some members won’t like each other. But unity means that members of the group are committed to the same fundamental ends and means. This builds trust, reduces defensiveness, and unleashes a lot of positive energy.

Agreement by members of a group on where they are going, why they are going there, and how they are supposed to do their work and treat each other (which often goes by the labels of mission, vision and values), enables decisiveness, innovation, boldness, and persistence in group efforts. Unity also motivates caring and support for one another in the group because “this individual wants the same things as I do.” A united enterprising family can better grow the assets it needs to finance its enterprise and the family. Such alignment also clarifies the kinds of family and non-family talent the family enterprise needs in order to stay successful. Growth, talent and unity are, we have found, the main ingredients of long-term sustainability for a family and its enterprise. One must conclude that family unity deserves to be celebrated and protected.

Unfortunately, unity is not the natural order of groups, including families. Without active counter measures, over time, entropy or disunity within families usually prevails. As families age and grow over time, they become diverse in many ways, and family complexity needs to be both embraced and managed. Failure to manage family complexity usually leads to fracturing of the family into smaller, more naturally coherent units. In addition, conflicts among group members can occur for many reasons and these can breed resentments and create lasting wounds that spread like a virus to involve large numbers of members. Families are particularly gifted at transmitting conflicts down through generations. Conflicts among members need to be healed or at least managed, and leadership and governance needs to be nurtured and adapted to current family circumstances. Without these and other measures, families grow apart and divide into smaller groups.

Unity around mission and approach is vital to maintain but mission and approach, themselves, need to evolve. Over time and certainly over generations, a family’s mission and approach needs to adapt to the changing interests, talents, resources and circumstances of a family. The same is true of the mission and approach of a family organization. Mission and approach needn’t change much over time for a group to stay effective, but they probably need to change some. Periodically (and more often than in previous generations), a family needs to reflect on and renew its “vows”—what do we stand for and want to achieve, and how will we do our work together and treat our stakeholders. By evolving a family’s mission and approach to be compelling to current members, the family can better maintain the focus, energy and discipline needed to work through its many challenges and sustain its success.

Building Family Unity

We have found that family unity is built through several mutually supportive ingredients:

• A compelling and achievable family mission, vision and values
• An engaging family enterprise organization that encourages broad family involvement and contributions
• Family enterprise organizations and activities (family company, family investments, family philanthropy, etc.) that perform well (including representing the family well), and maintain positive momentum toward key family goals
• Pride in one’s family and its contributions to its organizations and key activities (we have been and currently are capable, creative, decisive, brave, responsible, etc.)
• Strong levels of trust within the family achieved through: strong family and organization performance, trustworthy leadership and governance, adequate transparency and inclusion in key discussions, fair and respectful treatment of members, and demonstrated caring for family members and key stakeholders
• Managed expectations of owners and family members
• Affordable rewards and earned opportunities going to family owners and family members
• Timely conflict management
• The ability to change the ownership group to maintain unity.

It is possible to have adequate family unity without being good at all of these ingredients, but these items are a helpful checklist to understand where a system can improve. While most of the ingredients to building unity listed above speak for themselves, some (particularly 2-4 and 9) need some elaboration.

As much as commitment to an organization inspires an individual’s contribution to it, the inverse also seems true: the more a person contributes to an organization, the greater his or her commitment to the organization grows. This principle is central to building unity in any group. If you want someone to feel committed to what a family is doing, its mission and approach, give the person opportunities to contribute to the family and the family’s enterprise.

To achieve a family’s mission, the family needs organized efforts as well as funds to support these efforts. If a family’s mission were simply to support its family company, raise good children to be responsible well-educated adults, and have family members get along well, the family would need a family company, useful parenting and family activities, perhaps an education fund, and definitely some useful mechanisms (perhaps grandparents, maybe a family council) to keep the family aligned. Some families could have the above mission plus want to contribute to society beyond having a socially responsible business, need a way to manage the family’s financial assets, and have a desire to maintain the family’s religious faith. These families would need to add organizations or activities to support their mission, such as a philanthropic foundation, perhaps a family office, etc. The point is that families need to have appropriate organizations to help support their interests and pursue their missions. Having a well-designed family enterprise organization is critical to effectively pursue the family’s mission. The right family enterprise organization also helps to build unity in a family.

Most family members want to contribute to their family and to be regarded as adding value to the family’s efforts. An important reason why some family members disengage from the family is that they feel that their contributions are not valued in their family and that the family has little commitment to their interests. The family enterprise organization needs to reflect the family’s important interests and give family members an opportunity to help the family pursue its mission. As a family grows, becomes more diverse and develops a broader set of interests, the mission of the family and the family enterprise organization should reflect the key common interests. In fact, it is rare for families to stay very united when there is only a family company to support, where only a minority of family members can contribute to the family’s mission.

Of course, family unity is strengthened when the family is proud of its organizations and activities, and even further when the family can point to its members’ contributions for this good performance. This requires that family talent is developed to be able to contribute strongly to the family enterprise.

Building family unity often requires some corrective actions in family relationships. When we see strains and fragmentation in a family, we address it, trying to move family members beyond past misunderstandings, hurts and differences, and when important, reunifying the family around a compelling mission and approach that can bind them. But we recognize that family unity can’t always be maintained with the current family members. Most family enterprises do better when the assets of the family and the talent of the family are pooled, engaged and aligned. However, when parts of an enterprising family resists reunification and it is seriously undermining the sustainability of the family, the family must consider the radical options of either dividing their assets and activities,  or buying out members that are no longer aligned — Family unity is that important for the success of a family and its enterprise. A family is more assured of success if it has a smaller asset base and a more united family, than with the converse situation. This pathway is desirable only after serious efforts at unity have been pursued.

Questions for Further Reflection

• What is the difference between consensu s and unanimity ; why is consensus the key to family unity, not unanimity?
• How can the family and the family enterprise system change over time in order to adapt to the changing factors that affect family unity?
• How can you help your family understand that conflict is inevitable, that it is impossible to eliminate it, that accepting some conflict, managing it, taking advantage of it, and functioning despite conflict is the goal?
• What would a family conflict resolution policy look like?

This article originally appeared in Wealth of Wisdom: The Top 50 Questions Wealthy Families Ask by Tom McCullough and Keith Whitaker  

Andrew hier.

Andrew Hier is a Senior Advisor and Partner at Cambridge Advisors to Family Enterprise where he advises business families globally on issues related to shareholder relationships, ownership strategies, succession and next generation issues, and governance of the family, owners and business. He is a Fellow at Cambridge Institute for Family Enterprise where he teaches and facilitates in family business programs around the world. He is active in the Family Firm Institute, the premiere association of advisors serving families.

Professor John A. Davis

John A. Davis is a globally recognized pioneer and authority on family enterprise, family wealth, and the family office. He is a researcher, educator, author, architect of the field’s most impactful conceptual frameworks, and advisor to leading families around the world. He leads the family enterprise programs at MIT Sloan. To follow his writing and speaking, visit johndavis.com and twitter  @ProfJohnDavis .

What is family unity?

Answered by Antonio Sutton

Family unity refers to the strong bond and cohesive relationship that exists within a family unit. It is the sense of togetherness, support, and interconnectedness that family members share. Family unity is not just limited to blood relations, but can also encompass chosen or extended family members who play significant roles in one’s life.

At its core, family unity recognizes the importance of having a stable and nurturing environment where individuals can grow, develop, and thrive. It is about creating a safe space where members can rely on one another, share experiences, and create lasting memories together. This unity is often built on love, trust, and mutual respect.

One of the fundamental aspects of family unity is the right to marry and found a family. This right, recognized by international human rights instruments, emphasizes the importance of individuals being able to choose their life partner and build a family of their own. It acknowledges that the formation of a family is a fundamental aspect of personal autonomy and self-determination.

Moreover, family unity includes the right to maintain a family life together. This means that once a family is formed, individuals have the right to live together and enjoy each other’s company without undue interference from external factors. It encompasses the right to reside in the same household, spend quality time together, and engage in activities that strengthen familial bonds.

The right to family unity is also protected by the prohibition against arbitrary interference with the family. This means that governments and other entities should not unjustifiably disrupt or undermine the family unit. Arbitrary interference may include actions such as forced separation of family members, forced adoption, or restrictions on the freedom of movement that prevent families from living together.

Family unity is crucial for the well-being and development of individuals, particularly children. It provides a sense of belonging, emotional support, and stability. When families are united, they can effectively address challenges, share responsibilities, and provide a nurturing environment for their members. This unity can also contribute to the overall social fabric, as strong families often foster stronger communities.

Personal experiences and situations can further shed light on the significance of family unity. For instance, growing up in a close-knit family where love and support were abundant can have a profound impact on one’s overall well-being and outlook on life. Similarly, witnessing the consequences of forced separation or lack of family unity can highlight the detrimental effects it can have on individuals and their sense of identity.

Family unity is the essence of a strong and supportive family unit. It encompasses the right to marry and found a family, the right to maintain a family life together, and protection against arbitrary interference. Family unity is fundamental for individuals’ well-being, personal growth, and overall social cohesion. It is a cherished value that should be upheld and protected.

What Is The Importance Of Family Unity In Modern Society?

With advancements in technology, changing cultural norms, new priorities, and advanced forms of communication fueled by the internet, you may wonder how family holds up in modern society. The concept of family is likely to continue to be essential for people from all walks of life, despite changing beliefs and customs. Research often demonstrates the importance of family for numerous areas of well-being . No matter how much life changes and the concept of family evolves, it may continue to benefit human health and wellness by offering a sense of belonging and support. If you’re experiencing family-related challenges, it can be helpful to speak to an objective person, such as a licensed therapist, for insight and guidance.

Its definition may evolve, but family may remain essential  

The traditional definition of a "nuclear family" typically entailed one man and one woman who were married and had biological children. However, today’s families can be more inclusive and may look different than family stereotypes. Additionally, research usually labels many different types of families.

Benefits of a healthy family 

As modern life can add pressure and stress, a healthy family dynamic can have multiple benefits, regardless of whether it's a biological family, adoptive family, or chosen family. 

Helps you meet your basic needs

Many years ago, Abraham Maslow created the Hierarchy of Needs . At the bottom of this hierarchy are usually basic needs, including water, food, rest, and health. A family may provide these necessities, which can serve as building blocks for other needs. 

Research also suggests that social connection can be considered a need, as it usually improves physical and mental health. Family may offer social connection in abundance. 

Allows you to belong to something and foster a sense of unity

A sense of belonging can come from the family, group, or community we belong to, and it can contribute to our emotional well-being by allowing us to feel connected socially. 

Offers an important built-in support system and promotes family connection

Research shows that the support system families provide can have a profound impact  throughout different stages of life. Difficult times are often inevitable, but a family may provide a sense of stability and connection that can make it easier to get through them. 

A family bond contributes to health 

Children might experience a healthy lifestyle when they live in a healthy family. They may eat healthy meals, enjoy time outdoors, and get prompt medical attention when needed. 

Health benefits can exist for parents in families, too. Research has shown that people with children in their families tend to live longer , even after the children have grown up and moved away. 

Families provide support when someone is ill

Facing medical problems alone can be challenging. A family may help alleviate this difficulty by offering support and assistance as you heal. 

Offers community benefits by reinforcing family values.

A strong family structure may reduce the likelihood of delinquency and crime. This can mean that the family unit may substantially impact an individual and their community. 

The importance of family and love in educating children

One way many parents contribute to society is by educating their children. Parents and caregivers often begin teaching children at a very young age. They may help them learn to walk and teach them new words as they develop their vocabulary and language skills. They also may teach them manners and take advantage of learning opportunities in everyday life. 

Many parents also encourage scholarship opportunities, ethical behavior, and social skills that can benefit children throughout adolescence and into adulthood.

All families may struggle sometimes

Even though families can have benefits, they may face challenges at times. When it comes to overcoming the difficulties of family life, you might find support in your friends. You can also seek the help of a professional with training and experience in family dynamics. 

Seeking help

Talking to a therapist may help you explore your feelings about family and learn to express those feelings openly. You may also learn to understand the family influences that shaped your personality. 

Benefits of online therapy in enhancing family relationships

Online therapy can be an easy and convenient way to receive insight and guidance from a licensed therapist. It can be helpful to vent to an objective person during therapy sessions, and you can attend these sessions from any location with an internet connection. With an online therapy platform, you can even seek out a therapist who specializes in helping their clients navigate family-related concerns.

Effectiveness of online therapy

 Although more research may be needed regarding the efficacy of individual online therapy for addressing family-related challenges, a growing body of evidence generally supports the idea that online therapy can be just as effective as face-to-face therapy.

What is the importance of a family bond in life?

Family can often serve as a cornerstone of our emotional support system, playing a role in each individual's emotional health. This foundational element often sets the stage for future relationships and helps build self-esteem.

What is the importance of family connection to a person?

Family can provide unconditional love and emotional support, which are key factors in building an individual's self-esteem. These early relationships set the groundwork for personal relationships and adult life.

What are 10 important aspects of family in your life?

• Emotional support:  Family offers a safety net for emotional well-being.
• Unconditional love: The love from family is often lifelong and uncompromising.
• Moral and ethical guidance: Family serves as our first role model, teaching us social skills and crucial role values.
• Financial support: Financial stability often starts with family support.
• Educational support: Family’s involvement can positively impact academic performance.
• Healthy families: A supportive family environment can contribute to healthy relationships.
• Family traditions and history: Knowing your family history adds a sense of belonging.
• Role models: Family provides the first role models in a child’s life.
• Open communication: Communication within the family contributes to emotional health and strong personal relationships.
• Sense of belonging: Family gatherings, such as family meals, add to the sense of community.

Why are family relationships among the most important support we will ever have?

Family relationships can lay the foundation for how we manage future relationships. The skills learned in the family context are applied to personal relationships in adult life, playing an important role in our overall emotional well-being.

What are the most important values in your relationships as a family?

Important values, like unconditional love and open communication, can form the bedrock on which the emotional health of each individual in the family is built. These values often lead to a unified family, increasing senses of security, stability and support.

What is important in life: family or love?

Family often provides the first experience of unconditional love, and this foundational emotional support sets the tone for what we seek in other personal relationships throughout adult life.

Is having a family the most important thing?

Having a family often offers emotional support and unconditional love, serving as an individual’s foundational support system and playing a crucial role in emotional health. However, many aspects of life are important, and family is not necessarily more important than other relationships in your life. 

Why is family more important than happiness?

Family often serves as a significant source of happiness, fulfilling our needs for emotional support and unconditional love. 

What is the importance of family unity?

Family unity offers a conducive environment for emotional health and well-being. This unity is often fostered through open communication during family meals, contributing to each individual's ability to maintain relationships.

What brings unity to the family?

Common values and open communication are key factors that bring family unity. Family meals and traditions also play a part, serving as regular platforms for them to express emotional support and unconditional love.

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Creating Cohesion: The Foundations Of Family Unity

• by Relationship Mag
• August 14, 2023 May 17, 2024

Unity within a family forms the bedrock upon which all other facets of social, emotional, and psychological well-being are built. It’s not just about being in the same family tree; it’s about fostering an environment of mutual respect, open communication, shared experiences, and unwavering support. This post explores the foundations of family unity, illustrating how it can be cultivated and strengthened. Each section provides an in-depth discussion of key elements and practical implementation strategies. The objective is to provide an insightful guide to fortify the pillars of unity within every family, fostering healthier, happier, and more fulfilling familial relationships.

• 1 Understanding Family Unity
• 2 The Role of Communication
• 3 Building Trust and Respect
• 4 The Value of Shared Experiences
• 5 Conflict Resolution Skills
• 6 Nurturing a Positive Family Culture
• 7 The Significance of Love and Affection
• 8 The Bottom Line

Understanding Family Unity

Family unity is the bond that ties a family together; the sense of support and love gives each member the confidence to face life’s challenges. This unity does not come from genetic connections or shared living spaces; it emanates from understanding, respect, shared values, and mutual support. When a family is united, it can effectively weather any storm, supporting each member in times of hardship and celebrating together in times of joy.

Understanding why family unity is essential is the first step in fostering it. It promotes emotional health, creates a supportive environment, and offers a sense of belonging. A united family can significantly impact children’s development, providing a solid foundation for emotional, cognitive, and social growth. It offers a blueprint for interacting with the world, negotiating conflicts, and forming healthy relationships. It offers adults a supportive network, mutual understanding, and a haven of comfort and love.

The Role of Communication

Communication forms the lifeblood of any relationship, and within a family , it plays an instrumental role in fostering unity. Open and honest communication allows family members to understand each other’s thoughts, feelings, needs, and desires. It paves the way for empathy and support, creating an environment where each member feels heard and valued.

However, effective communication is not a naturally occurring phenomenon in every family. It requires deliberate effort and, occasionally, the breakdown of barriers that hinder open discussions. Such barriers could range from a generational gap, language differences, or emotional barriers rooted in past conflicts or misunderstandings. Overcoming these challenges can involve establishing regular family meetings, active listening exercises, and encouraging open discussions about feelings and experiences.

Building Trust and Respect

Trust and respect are the cornerstone of any solid relationship, and within the family unit, these elements are paramount. Trust offers safety and predictability, while respect acknowledges each member’s individuality and inherent value. They create a nurturing environment where family members can grow and flourish.

Cultivating trust and respect within a family involves honesty, reliability, and empathy. Keeping promises, acknowledging emotions, validating each other’s experiences, and demonstrating consistent behavior are practical ways to foster these elements. They build individual self-esteem and contribute to a stronger, more unified family dynamic. The interplay between trust and respect significantly impacts cohesion and overall harmony within the family.

The Value of Shared Experiences

Shared experiences play a significant role in the construction of family unity. They are the threads that weave together the fabric of familial relationships, strengthening the bond between family members. From everyday activities like shared meals and bedtime stories to special occasions like vacations or holidays, these moments form a tapestry of memories that foster a deep sense of belonging.

Although these experiences are invaluable, they must not be grandiose or expensive. It could be as simple as a weekly game night, family cooking sessions, or watching a movie together. The critical factor is sharing time, emotions, and experiences. These create shared memories, which are a powerful bonding agent. Over time, these shared experiences foster mutual understanding, shared values, and collective identity, essential elements of family unity.

Conflict Resolution Skills

Even in the most unified families, conflict is inevitable. Differences in opinions, miscommunications, or clashing personalities can lead to disagreements. However, managing these conflicts can significantly impact the family’s unity. Therefore, effective conflict resolution skills are essential in maintaining harmony and fostering understanding within the family.

These skills include patience, active listening, empathy, and compromise. They help family members navigate disagreements respectfully and constructively, ensuring that conflicts become opportunities for growth rather than sources of division. These skills involve acknowledging and respecting different viewpoints, expressing emotions honestly, and working towards a mutually agreeable resolution. Family members learn to understand and appreciate each other more, fostering a stronger bond and more profound unity.

Nurturing a Positive Family Culture

A positive family culture is one where every member feels valued, loved, and accepted. It’s an environment that promotes mutual support, encourages individual growth, and nurtures positive values. This culture significantly contributes to family unity, setting the tone for interactions, influencing family dynamics, and shaping the overall family identity.

Creating such a culture may involve setting family values, fostering open communication, demonstrating love and respect, and encouraging individuality. It requires consistent effort from all members and a commitment to nurturing a supportive, loving, and positive environment. A positive family culture not only makes the family a haven of love and support but also significantly enhances the unity and cohesion of the family.

The Significance of Love and Affection

At the heart of family unity lies love and affection. These emotions form the foundation of the family bond, creating a sense of belonging and acceptance. Expressions of love and affection—whether verbal affirmations, acts of service, quality time, or physical touch—further strengthen this bond, fostering unity within the family.

However, expressing love and affection may not always be straightforward. Sometimes, emotional barriers, busy schedules, or simply not knowing how to express these feelings can stand in the way. Overcoming these challenges requires understanding each member’s love language, setting aside dedicated time for family, and fostering an environment where expressing emotions is encouraged and valued. By doing so, love and affection become the glue that holds the family together, fostering a profound sense of unity.

The Bottom Line

Family unity is the harmonious blend of mutual respect, open communication, shared experiences, conflict resolution skills, positive culture, and love. These elements contribute to creating an environment of support, acceptance, and belonging—forming the pillars of family unity. While each family is unique, and the path to unity may differ, the foundations remain the same. Implementing these strategies and nurturing these foundations can help foster unity within every family, ultimately creating healthier, happier, and more fulfilling familial relationships. In the grand tapestry of life, family unity forms the vibrant threads that hold everything together, a testament to its enduring power and immeasurable importance.

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Do you know your family history? Try sharing stories with your kids to bring past and present generations together! Here’s a Family Night lesson to get you started.

What makes a family strong, resilient, and happy? It is something we all desire. There are many articles and books written on this topic. One of my favorite is an article published in the New York Times written by Bruce Feiler. It is titled, “The Stories That Bind Us.” (Link Here) I like this particular essay because the principles taught make sense, it feels right, and it is easy to implement.

This article teaches a simple principle that draws the generations of a family tree together and makes the overall family resiliency strong. It is all about stories. What is your family story? Talk about it tonight with this fun Family Night Lesson.

Lesson: I recommend reading the article in advance to teaching this lesson. Or, read it together as a group. It will only take a few minutes and it will help you understand the lesson better!

First, define what family means. There are two parts to the common definition. The first is, “A group consisting of parents and children living together in a household.” Obviously, this ideal isn’t always the case, and that is ok!

The second part of the definition is, “All the descendants of a common ancestor.” Adding this part of the definition to the world family is important for this lesson. We are part of something bigger than just our single family unit.

Talk about who your family is. What is Grandma’s name? Who is Aunt Susan? Where did they come from? Where do they live? Pull out a scrapbook and show your children pictures of your extended family. I love to look at physical similarities. Do your kids have Great Grandpa’s nose? Did they inherit Uncle Billy’s curly hair? Is there a trait that is consistent through the generations? The grandkids in my family are really lucky when they get my father’s bright blue eyes. My siblings and I all secretly hope our kids will be born with them, because they are the most vibrant beautiful blue eyes a person could have.

Why is it important for your children to know about their ancestors? In the article Dr. Duke said, “that children who have the most self-confidence have what he and Dr. Fivush call a strong intergenerational self. Meaning, they know they belong to something bigger than themselves.” Their research points to a direct correlation between a child’s ability to cope with stress (general happiness and resiliency) and the child’s sense of being part of a larger family. When a child knows that they are a link in a strong chain of people, it makes life easier to handle. Each person is not battling life alone, but as part of a greater whole.

Isn’t that an amazing gift? We are all part of a family that is bonded together through trials and success. The more you know and your children know about your ancestors, the stronger the family bond can be.

So, how to you make this link solid? By telling stories! Take a few minutes to share a few stories about your ancestors that are interesting, funny, inspirational, or educational. You don’t have to go very far up the family tree if you don’t want to. You can talk about your parents or your siblings. Tell your kids about how your parents met. Talk about what they did to earn a living. Is there a time when you were impressed by a hard decision your parents had to make when you were a kid? Share it. This is story time. And these are the stories that will bind your family together.

This might be a fun time to call a grandma or grandpa on the phone to ask them questions! Ask them about where they served a Church mission. Ask what they liked to learn about in school. What is their favorite vacation? Find out what trial was the hardest in their life and how they overcame it. Make a list of questions on a piece of paper before you call to help guide the conversation. This little interview will help you get to know them better.

A few months ago, while preparing dinner, I took two minutes to tell my kids a story about their Great Great Great Great Grandpa Dan Jones. This is what I said in a nutshell: Dan Jones was a Mormon Pioneer. He was with his good friend Joseph Smith the night before the prophet was martyred. Dan Jones got lost heading home that night. It was a lucky mistake, because there was a mob of people waiting to kill him on the correct road to his home. The Lord was watching out for Dan. He knew him and He knew there was still so much good work for Dan to do on Earth. He was a very special man. You kids are so lucky to have a brave hero as a Grandpa.

That was it! I wasn’t even sure if my kids were listening. Then, a few weeks after I told the story, my family and I were at Disneyland. We walked past the Indiana Jones ride in Adventureland. My little six year old boy’s eyes lit up and he got so excited. He exclaimed, “Mom! It’s the Dan Jones ride! We know him!” After I laughed, my heart swelled up. Because, he remembered the story and he was proud to be related to Mr. Jones. Even if it was the wrong hero. His sense of self was elevated because of his connection to his Great Grandpa Jones.

Kids really do feel a bond with their ancestors when they learn about them through the stories we tell.

Cut paper into strips that are about 1 inch thick. Give each person a single strip of paper and have them write their own name onto it. H0ld the paper in a circle. (Don’t staple it yet) Tell each child that this link represents you.

Link the pieces of your chain together so that the links that represent your immediate family are all together.

Then, start writing down the names of your extended family onto the extra paper strips.

When you write the name it would be good to say a quick thing about that person. For example, “Great Grandma Mary-she made the best orange rolls every Thanksgiving dinner. My siblings and I would get stuffed eating as many as we could. I got my recipe from her!” Take turns hooking the extended family chain pieces to your own family chain.

When you are finished you will have one giant family chain that has been bonded together. This giant chain is much more impressive than the individual links you started with. Hang the chain up so that you can see it throughout the week as a reminder that you are all part of a family bond.

Sharing stories about your family should become a consistent dialog in your home. The article in the New York Times gave the suggestion to utilize times when you are already together to talk about family stories. Stories can be told and bonds can be built during family dinner time, while riding in the car, waiting at the dentist office, walking home from school, after a hard loss at a sporting event, before a big date, or during young children’s bath time.

Hopefully, you are already spending time together. (That is the first big step!) Now, you just need to remember to use that time to create a sense of family belonging in the hearts of your children. It is amazing how knowing who they are and what their family has accomplished over time really does make a child feel more important, strong, better adjusted, and happier than those who are living life without that bond of love and belonging.

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“Striving for Family Unity,” Ensign, Sept. 2007, 9–13

Lessons from the New Testament

Striving for Family Unity

By Elder Donald L. Staheli

Served as a member of the Seventy from 1997 to 2006

It has been said that if you think you know a perfect family, you don’t know the family very well!

This suggests that all of us have periodic challenges in establishing and maintaining love and unity within our families. Yet, in large measure, our challenge to teach and nurture our children in a way that will qualify us as eternal families defines our mission here on earth.

In his epistle to the Ephesians, the Apostle Paul emphasized the importance of “perfecting … the saints” and reaching a “unity of the faith” ( Ephesians 4:12–13 ). With this “unity,” Paul counseled that the Saints would “be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive” ( Ephesians 4:14 ). What a magnificent promise—especially for parents!

Love of families and fellow men was the keystone of the Savior’s ministry. To His disciples, He said, “This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you” ( John 15:12 ). Less than a year following the organization of the restored Church, the Lord told the Saints in Fayette, New York, “I say unto you, be one; and if ye are not one ye are not mine” ( D&C 38:27 ).

The teachings of living prophets and apostles as summarized in “The Family: A Proclamation to the World” make clear our responsibilities to our families:

“Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, to teach them to love and serve one another. … Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities.” 1

Amid all the counsel we have been given about nurturing our children in love and unity, as parents we must decide how we can best accomplish this challenging but eternally compelling task. Some of the following principles and ideas may provide help in uniting our families in love and truth.

Unity of Parents

Unity in the family begins with a loving parental relationship that sets an example for the family and extends in a personal way to each child.

President David O. McKay often credited his father and mother for the love and unity experienced in their family. He said: “Most gratefully and humbly I cherish the remembrance that never once as a lad in the home of my youth did I ever see one instance of discord between father and mother, and that goodwill and mutual understanding has been the uniting bond that has held together a fortunate group of brothers and sisters. Unity, harmony, goodwill are virtues to be fostered and cherished in every home.” 2

Loving, Trusting Relationships

Studies have shown that in most families, children’s self-confidence and sense of personal worth are directly related to the quality of their relationships with their parents 3 and how parents have taught and lived basic principles of the gospel.

As our children become teenagers, they frequently rely on things that will endear them to their peers. Unless a strong bond of love and trust has been established between parents and children, supported by a strong spiritual environment in the home, children’s loyalties tend to move to peers as they become teenagers. As children develop confidence in themselves and strong testimonies of the Savior, they add a special spirit of unity and happiness to their families and have strength to resist the pressures of the world.

President Gordon B. Hinckley has counseled: “I would like to see greater love in our homes. … You parents who are fathers and mothers of children, treasure your children. Look to them with love. Lead them … with love. … They will follow after you if you do that. And I make you a promise that if you do so, the time will come when you will feel so grateful that you have done so, that you will get on your knees and thank the Lord for the precious children who have come to you and grown up under your direction.” 4

Frequent expressions of love are a key to building trusting and loving relationships, but equally important is the consistent demonstration of that love. How we act often speaks louder than what we say and how we say it. It is important that we consistently and genuinely show our children our love for them as well as tell them of that love.

Following his father’s death, one young man felt he could take little comfort from his mother’s assurance that his father loved him and was proud of him.

“While a doctor was verifying death, I was leaning against the wall in the far corner of the room, crying softly. A nurse came over to me and put a comforting arm around me. I couldn’t talk through my tears. I wanted to tell her:

“‘I’m not crying because my father is dead. I’m crying because my father never told me that he was proud of me. He never told me that he loved me. Of course, I was expected to know these things. I was expected to know the great part I played in his life and the great part I occupied of his heart, but he never told me. ’” 5

Perhaps there was a greater message than most of us realize when God our Father announced His Son by saying, “This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased ” ( Matthew 3:17 ; emphasis added).

Children thrive on loving relationships that make them feel special. Encouragement and love are important, especially when things may not be going well.

Listening to our children and respecting their views builds trust and opens communication. Understanding and agreeing on expectations with each member of the family adds to the unity and good feelings for each other. Periodic one-on-one time is a superb way to build lasting relationships and trust. In fact, personal time with each child is an essential building block to genuine lasting relationships of love and unity.

As children replace selfishness and envy with kindness and service to each other, unity grows within the family. And as the family serves together to assist others, a bond of unity and love becomes the hallmark of the family. Unity in the family will not always free parents from problems and challenges with their children, but it does enable families to cohesively focus on solutions.

Personal Spiritual Experiences for Children

Living in accordance with our strong personal testimonies becomes the foundation for unwavering love and unity within a family. Testimonies also provide the bulwark against Satan and the things of the world that he uses to bring contention into families.

One of our key responsibilities as parents is to help our children prepare for and have spiritual experiences in their youth that will develop strong testimonies of Jesus Christ and His restored gospel. These experiences come as a result of prayer, study, and living gospel principles. They come from family home evenings and scripture study. They result from personal experiences and feelings from association with Church leaders and spiritually strong friends. Frequently, they come in a very personal way as the Spirit touches and confirms the truth and testimony of the living Father and His Son, Jesus Christ, as the Savior and Redeemer of the world.

I will be forever grateful for my faithful parents who, in their humble way, used the priesthood and the power of prayer to bless their children with the Lord’s healing power. On several occasions during my youth, the Lord responded with His tender mercies in a way that was miraculous. For me those experiences formed the basic foundation on which I have developed an undeniable testimony of the Lord and His love for each of us.

Unified Families Minimize Contention

The Lord’s challenge to raise our families in unity and righteousness is not a simple one. Our youth live in exciting yet challenging times. Their lives are filled with responsibilities and activities of various kinds. They have access to many things, including media and music that do not always fit within the standards of the home and the principles of the Church. As a result, almost every family at one time or another experiences disagreements on certain issues, both large and small. This creates contention.

The Lord made clear His feelings on contention when He said to the Nephites, “He that hath the spirit of contention is not of me, but is of the devil” ( 3 Nephi 11:29 ).

Our challenge as parents is to keep misunderstandings and disagreements to a minimum and to resolve differences quickly and amicably. The more we and our children are committed to living gospel principles, the greater the opportunity for the spirit of unity and love to reside in our homes. A clear understanding of gospel-centered guidelines and expectations in the home will significantly reduce periodic issues that precipitate contention.

Consistent Family and Personal Prayer

Some of the most effective teaching in our homes comes from the family’s kneeling together and feeling the spirit of what is said in daily family prayer. Asking the Lord for forgiveness, while also petitioning His help in unifying the family in love and righteous purposes, can have a lasting influence on our children as they grow together in the family. Sincere prayers soften contentious thoughts.

It is absolutely imperative that we teach and encourage our children to be consistent and sincere in offering their personal prayers. As children pray daily, they will feel the Lord’s personal direction in their lives. As they learn to seek His blessings and guidance, the family will find the joy and happiness that come from striving to be a righteous family.

In His great Intercessory Prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane, the Savior pleaded with the Father five separate times for unity—“that they may be one, even as we are one” and “that they may be made perfect in one” (see John 17:11, 22–23 ). Unity is the outcome of a family engaging in righteous principles.

May we as parents pray for and live worthy of the Lord’s blessings so that our families may be one on earth and in the eternities to come.

Helps for Home Evening

To help family members visualize family unity, consider weaving a placemat from strips of paper. Write the name of a different family member on each strip. As they are woven together, discuss how this process represents the process of creating family unity. Use Elder Staheli’s article to discuss ways the family can build unity.

Consider having family members draw a picture of five people holding hands. Label each person with one of the headings from Elder Staheli’s article. Point out strengths that your family has in each of these areas. Using the suggestions in the article, plan an activity that will strengthen your family.

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Family Unity: The New Geography of Family Life

When the most intimate and enduring of human relationships are lived across international borders, states trying to manage migration flows must balance border control concerns with their international obligations to respect and support family life. While it is sometimes thought that state sovereignty over borders is complete, non-citizens can in certain cases, depending on immigration status and the nature of the relationship, claim the right to family unity in their host states.

A "right to family unity" is not expressed as such in international treaties. Rather, the term is shorthand for the sum of several interlocking rights, discussed below. In the migration context, family unity covers issues related to admission, stay, and expulsion. Family unity can also have a more specific meaning relating to constraints on state discretion to separate an existing intact family through the expulsion of one of its members. In contrast, family reunification, or reunion, refers to the efforts of family members already separated by forced or voluntary migration to regroup in a country other than their country of origin, and so implicates state discretion over admission. This article uses family unity in its broader meaning, unless the more limited one is clearly implied.

The Right to Family Unity

A family's right to live together is protected by international human rights and humanitarian law. There is universal consensus that, as the fundamental unit of society, the family is entitled to respect, protection, assistance, and support. A right to family unity is inherent in recognizing the family as a group unit. The right to marry and found a family also includes the right to maintain a family life together.

The right to a shared family life draws additional support from the prohibition against arbitrary interference with the family. Finally, states have recognized that children have a right to live with their parents. Both the father and the mother, irrespective of their marital status, have common responsibilities as parents and share the right and responsibility to participate equally in the upbringing and development of their children.

The right to family unity is not limited to citizens living in their own state. Cross-border family unity issues arise most frequently when a host state either moves to deport a non-citizen family member, or denies entry to an individual seeking to join family members already residing in the state. The corollary problem, that of a state of origin denying exit permission to an individual attempting reunification with family in another country, has become a less salient issue with the end of the Cold War.

The right to family unity across borders intersects with the prerogative of states to make decisions on the entry or stay of non-citizens. These interests seem increasingly often to clash. Today's migratory movements are fueled by the economic pressures and opportunities of globalization, the prevalence of war and other human rights violations, and the existence of kinship networks created by earlier migration. At the same time, many states have been struggling to address real and perceived migration management problems by enacting restrictive laws and increasing enforcement efforts, a trend that has intensified now that national security considerations have come to the forefront of the immigration debate.

The pressures can be enormous, both on policymakers trying to craft orderly immigration procedures, and on families who find it hard to accept that a border has come between them. The problems are widespread; forced and voluntary migrants alike grapple with these issues. Because it is so common for refugee families to be divided, the Office of the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees devotes much time and attention to refugee family unity and reunification, for obvious humanitarian reasons and also because both protection and solutions are immeasurably easier for intact families. The United Nations Special Rapporteur on the Human Rights of Migrants, Gabriela Rodriguez Pizarro, has emphasized the pervasive nature of the problem in observing that families separated by migration "are becoming increasingly common, and will become a defining characteristic of societies in many countries in the twenty-first century."

Equally defining will be the efforts of families to reunite through migration, and the ways in which states will choose to respond. The rights on which family unity is based are often qualified with provisions for the state to limit the right under certain circumstances. It should be noted, however, that the most important, and sometimes only, qualifier is the imperative to act in the best interests of the child. The nature of the family relationship shapes the right to family unity, with minor dependent children and their parents having the strongest claim to remain together or to be reunited. Maintaining the unity of an intact family poses different issues than reconstituting a separated family. Finally, the immigration status of the various family members has an impact on how the right to family unity should be implemented.

Different Kinds of Families and the Right to Unity

There is not a single, internationally accepted definition of the family, and international law recognizes a variety of forms. Some observers have noted that in many countries, traditional family patterns characterized by duties of care and concern for elders and members of the extended family are giving way to a more "western" or "nuclear" model, and caution against making outdated assumptions that favor these more distant relatives in reunification schemes. Others have pointed out that families are also evolving in more expansive ways, with the increasing acceptance of same-sex unions, and the growing phenomenon of AIDS orphans resulting in child-headed households, as just two examples. Given the variety of families, the existence of a family tie is a question of fact, best determined on a case-by-case basis.

The right to family unity applies universally to all persons. The question, then, is not whether various categories of persons have the right to family unity, but rather which state(s) must act to ensure the right. A look at the various categories of people who might claim a right to family unity demonstrates some of the issues that can arise.

Nationals : The right to marry is not limited to persons of the same nationality. However, for a citizen marrying a non-citizen, issues can arise when arbitrary restrictions are imposed or significant delays are encountered, or when female citizens have fewer rights than male citizens, for example, in obtaining entry for their non-citizen spouses or in transmitting citizenship to their children.

Migrants : Under the International Convention on the Protection of the Rights of All Migrant Workers and Members of their Families, which is under consideration in the United Nations General Assembly and is soon to come into force, states shall "take measures they deem appropriate" to facilitate reunification. The degree of discretion retained by states with respect to migrant workers reflects an expectation that workers can return to their home countries if they wish to rejoin family members, although this does not take into account economic realities that keep most migrant workers firmly tied to the host country. It is far more common for migrant workers to have, or wish to have, their families join them. Although some states have been reluctant to make generous provisions for family reunification, it is increasingly understood as a positive means of promoting the integration and securing the rights of migrants in their host societies.

Refugees : Refugees recognized under the 1951 Convention relating to the Status of Refugees are usually in the most advantageous position of all non-citizens with respect to family unity. Family unity in the refugee context means granting refugee or a similar secure status to family members accompanying a recognized refugee. The country of asylum must likewise provide for family reunification , at least of close family members, since the refugee cannot by definition return to the country of origin to enjoy reunification there. The right to family unity applies equally in situations of mass influx, whether managed under a temporary protection scheme or under international agreement, such as the OAU Refugee Convention. UNHCR's Executive Committee has specifically concluded that respect for family unity is a "minimum basic human standard" in such situations and has called for family reunification for persons benefiting from temporary protection. There is an emerging consensus for the need for prompt reunification during periods of temporary protection.

Others in need of international protection : Those whose claims under the 1951 Refugee Convention have been rejected after an individual determination, but who have nevertheless been found to be in need of international protection (under the Convention against Torture, for example) are entitled to respect for their fundamental human rights, including the right to family unity. The justification for refugee family reunification in a country of asylum derives from the refugee not being able to return home, and not from the Refugee Convention itself. Persons in an analogous situation of inability to return home should benefit from the same application of the right in the host country.

Asylum seekers : Since asylum seekers are, by definition, people whose legal status has not yet been determined, it may be difficult to determine where they should enjoy the right to family reunification, or which state bears responsibility for giving effect to that right. The length of proceedings in many countries causes tremendous hardship, particularly when children are apart from parents. There is a general recognition, at least in principle, that separated children should benefit from expedited procedures, but such measures do not even begin to address the right of children left in a country of origin or in transit to family reunification; no state has adopted expedited procedures for asylum-seeking parents separated from their children. States are understandably not eager to process family reunification applications for asylum seekers whose asylum applications they are having difficulty processing. Given the scarcity of state resources, however, it would be helpful to pursue possibilities for reuniting family members who are seeking asylum in various countries, particularly if determination of the claim has been pending, or is expected to take longer than, six months. The grouping together of potentially related claims, witnesses, and evidence would be more cost effective than parallel procedures in different jurisdictions, would promote more consistent decision-making, and would hasten the provision of a durable solution for the family.

Constraints on State Decisions to Expel and Admit Family Members

As a procedural matter, host states must consider the family interests involved before expelling a non-citizen family member. As a substantive matter, respect for the right to family unity requires balancing the state's interest in deporting the family member with the family's interest in remaining intact. The inquiry is focused whether the effects on the family of the separation would be disproportionate to the state's objectives in removing the individual. Considerations such as length of stay in the host country, age, and the degree of the family's financial and emotional interdependence should be weighed against the state's interests in promoting public safety and in enforcing immigration laws. The best practice suggests that, particularly when expulsion is threatened for immigration violations only, as opposed to criminal law convictions, and citizen children will be affected, states should find it difficult to rely solely on their interest in immigration enforcement to justify separating an intact family.

In assessing family unity cases involving children, states must also take into account the best interests of the child. States seeking to separate families through deportation face significant constraints in the Convention on the Rights of the Child (CRC), which requires in article 9 that states " shall ensure that a child shall not be separated from his or her parents against their will, except when...such separation is necessary for the best interests of the child ." (emphasis added)

There are both procedural and substantive aspects to the best interests requirement. To ensure an adequate procedure, professional opinions regarding the impact on the child must be taken into account where deportation will mean the separation of a child from his or her parent. The substantive content of the best interests principle is not explicitly defined in the CRC. Nevertheless, certain elements emerge from other provisions of the Convention. In the case of actions and decisions affecting an individual child, it is the best interests of that individual child that must be taken into account. It is in the child's best interests to enjoy the rights and freedoms set out in the CRC, such as contact with both parents (in most circumstances). Best interests must be determined on a case-by-case basis, taking into account the totality of the circumstances. The views of the child shall be heard 'in any judicial and administrative proceedings affecting the child' and be given due weight in accordance with his or her age and maturity. It is certainly not always in the best interests of the child to remain with parents, as recognized in CRC article 9. However, it should be noted that the CRC does not recognize a public interest to be weighed against the involuntary separation of the family. The only exception allowed is when separation is necessary for the best interests of the child.

Family reunification requires a state affirmatively to allow entry to a person, as opposed to refraining from deporting someone, and thus is a right more encumbered by state discretion. Nevertheless, states are bound by international obligations toward the family in this context, as well.

These obligations are most pronounced in the CRC, but support can also be found in other human rights treaties, in humanitarian law and in refugee protection principles. In looking at the situation for minor children and their parents, several elements of the CRC are important. First, the obligation imposed to ensure the unity of families within the state also determines the state's action regarding families divided by its borders. Second, reunification may require a state to allow entry as well as departure. Third, children and parents have equal status in a mutual right; either may be entitled to join the other. Nor is it sufficient that the child be with only one parent in an otherwise previously intact family; the child has the right to be with both parents, and both parents have the right and responsibility to raise the child.

While the CRC does not expressly mandate approval of every reunification application, it clearly contemplates that there is at least a presumption in favor of approval. States cannot maintain generally restrictive laws or practices regarding the entry of aliens for reunification purposes without violating the CRC. Nor can states fail to provide and promote a procedure for reunification.

Globalization has expanded the realm in which families live and work, and created a new geography of family life. Few migrants, even those who have made the choice to travel and to do so alone, intend a permanent, or even long-term, separation from their loved ones. Immigration policymakers will increasingly be called upon to recognize the rights and realities of families living across borders.

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Importance of Family in Society Essay

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The family institution has always played an essential role in forming society, civilization, and culture. The definition of family has changed throughout the history, and the reason for this was various factors: from ancient religious concepts and philosophies to modern political ideologies and economics. However, this essay provides a look at a family from a particular perspective. The family both forms and changes the worldview of parents who have taken responsibility for people close to them, and it brings up the children born in it as well. Thus, a family is two or more people united by love for each other and, most importantly, by strength and will to take responsibility for each other.

Family values, in their essence, have several elements necessary to create a strong foundation of mutual understanding and dialogue within the group. The central family values ​​include, for example, internal ones: the unity of culture and faith in the family, mutual understanding, love, and support between parents and children. Moreover, dialogue between all family members is significant because mutual understanding and communication are the essential elements of any strong relationship between people. External values are of no lesser meaning; these imply autonomy from the influence of the state and information coming from mass media. Additionally, public school education, school clubs, communities of children, and other activities imposed by the state fall into this category. The influence of these organizations alienates a person from the family, making them operators of political interests that encourage fragmentation within small communities and ideological centralization. To summarize, family values ​​comprise adherence to its firm foundation, consisting of love, shared views and dialogue within it, and autonomy from external influences outside it.

Next, responsibility plays an essential role in the formation of a healthy family. First of all, the authority of the parents as the prominent family members is relevant to this question. Family life for many modern people seems to be a heavy burden, which is easier to quit than to continue the long and challenging building of a strong union. This view comes from numerous factors inherent in modern society, mired in infantilism, skepticism, and reckless atheism, depriving a person of any responsibility to himself and community. Parents are responsible not only for their partners or children. More importantly, parents are responsible for themselves and their will, which keeps the family together. Thus, each parent’s responsibility is to be a person who can maintain the family’s coherence.

On the other hand, children have a colossal responsibility before their families. Sometimes this responsibility is higher than the parental responsibility even. Children might not meet the parents’ expectations to a great extent but instead accept the proper care, time, and resources that have been given to them. However, children succumb to the most crucial test of their will due to childish frivolity and youthful maximalism and the strength of those convictions that their parents helped them find. Therefore, children are responsible for themselves and the proper use of the family’s opportunities, which is sometimes difficult and requires discipline.

As to the discipline, there is a misconception that it should be supported by a steady hand, violence, and emotional pressure on children and partners. This approach has shown its inconsistency throughout the entire history of civilized humankind. For example, research from Howarth et al. (272) reveals that domestic violence “is associated with a significant risk to children’s physical and psychological safety and well‐being across the lifespan.” The key to maintaining discipline without aggression and trauma is dialogue, which includes communication, joint problem solving and discussing essential family members’ life details. In brief, a key to healthy discipline is dialogue instead of punishment and other violent actions among family members.

As a result, a particular foundation is needed for conducting a dialogue and determining the moral and ethical conditions. As such, religion dominates the family and acts as a vital factor in the consolidation and direction of family members’ development. In this essay, the suggested belief system is Christianity for several reasons. The basis of religion is love and compassion; this and the simple way of explaining humanistic values and Christian life in a community imply the importance of dialogue. Faith within the family allows for a discussion within the framework of common morality and ethics, allowing each member to reveal the essence of their thoughts and ideas. Thus, religion creates a moral and ethical consensus in the family, creating a general framework for discourse and setting its vector.

It could be seen that such a perception of the institution of the family is prevalent. In this context, the words of William Bennett (par. 5) are relevant: “it is the values ​​that a child is taught that will more determine that child’s fate”. Looking at modern society, one can notice that the influence of the family is the most critical factor of the personality, both in its initial period and in later life. In his article, Bennett reveals the issue of the family from the point of view, nowadays defined as “conservative.” This is reflected in criticism of the school system and popular culture in the lives of children. In short, Bennett considers the family’s moral and ethical ideals and imperative concepts to be the family’s foundation.

In addition, Bennett also expresses ideas about what positively affects the family in general and children in particular. His ideas include a strong religious and cultural unity within the family. Furthermore, he emphasizes a responsible and humanistic approach of parents to the upbringing of their children, i.e., guidance and upbringing with love and care, instead of harsh prescription and aggression. It also describes a critical element of the family: two parents, especially a father, in the process of raising a child. This is explained by the fact that in modern society, the irresponsible approach of parents to conceiving a child and forming a family leads to the absence of paternal guidance and maternal care. It is this that most fully corresponds to the definition of family discussed in this essay. Hence, Bennett’s position insists on the fundamental factors of family formation in the face of a humanistic approach and love and the presence of fatherhood and motherhood in education.

In conclusion, the family is the foundation of society, allowing an individual to live harmoniously, develop and stick together with people close to her, based on personal responsibility, love, and mutual understanding. Family values ​​are essential since they create relationships in a group, allowing the family to conduct a dialogue and understand each other. Importantly, dialogue requires mutual support; discipline and faith are critical for the comfortable living of several individuals in a unity named family. It is generally held together by the responsibility of both parents and children and the humanism and communication of its members.

Works Cited

Bennet, William. “Remarks by William Bennet — The Forerunner.” The Forerunner . Web.

Howarth, Emma, et al. “Towards an Ecological Understanding of Readiness to Engage With Interventions for Children Exposed to Domestic Violence and Abuse: Systematic Review and Qualitative Synthesis of Perspectives of Children, Parents and Practitioners.” Health & Social Care in the Community , vol. 27, no. 2, 2018, pp. 271–92. Crossref . Web.

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Follow the 5 C's to build family unity

Last Saturday, I was blessed with the privilege and opportunity of presenting a special seminar for the Sitka Church of Christ in Milan on "How to Build Family Unity." It was inspiring to hear feedback on various participants' insightful ideas regarding the meaning and purpose of family.

Some persons felt that our families exist to provide safety and security for persons in the home. Others alluded to goals of parental nurturance, spiritual growth and personal development. However, the answer I was most impressed with was that our families' primary purpose is to point to God and bring praise to him through our godly examples.

It doesn't take us looking to far to observe the tragic reality that the traditional family is under full frontal attack in America with many powerful evil forces vying against it. Even within the church we often struggle to keep our families together and on track. The question I am seeking to answer in today's column is as follows: How can we go about building (or restoring) family unity and making our families stronger? I believe that there are at least five important keys to consider, each of which begins with the letter "C."

The first essential key to developing family unity is commitment. It seems these days that marriages and families are frequently viewed as temporary — even throwaway — conveniences. There's little to no loyalty. Selfishness and self-centeredness can easily get in the way of harmony and happiness in the home. Whether we're a spouse, parent, child, sibling or all of the above, we need to think long and hard about how committed we are to our families' basic physical, emotional and spiritual well-being. What level of sacrifice are we willing to make for the health and wholeness of our family units? Family ought to walk in when the world walks out on us.

Second is the all-important characteristic of compassion. Why is it that we often tend to hurt the ones we should love the most through our unkind words, pettiness, envy, angry outbursts and bitterness toward each other? To demonstrate compassion in the home means to develop a genuinely caring and considerate heart — one that sympathizes and empathizes with the various struggles, fears and difficulties we each possess. And it is more than just something we feel; it's what we do. We must demonstrate mercy and kindness to one another, being patient, understanding and forgiving.

Third is the concept of communication. To communicate effectively necessitates more listening than talking, more concentration than jumping to hasty conclusions, more clarification than condemnation. We must take down our defenses and open our ears and minds so we can take in what our family members are trying to get across to us. Listen with your heart and speak with honesty and humility. Reflect back to the other person what you have grasped from their words to give them the opportunity to clarify any misconceptions.

Fourth comes compromise. I'm not talking about compromising the truth or our moral values in any way. What I mean is that everything — within reason — should be open to negotiation in our families. A healthy family will be characterized by give and take. Certain spouses seem to adhere to the idea that "It's my way or the highway!" Some parents are like cantankerous ogres who never consider their children's legitimate wishes and desires. On the other hand, some children act like spoiled brats who operate with a sense of personal entitlement for whatever they want at whatever cost to their parents. We've got to strike a balance in our families so that wisdom and fairness prevails in the end.

Finally, and most importantly in our attempt to foster peace and unity within our families, there must be Christ. Jesus should be the very cornerstone of our family life, and our homes need to be built upon him as our firm foundation. Our ultimate purpose in our families ought to be to bring glory to God. Psalm 127:1 states, "Unless the LORD builds the house, those who build it labor in vain."

Dr. Ryan Fraser is an assistant professor of counseling at Freed-Hardeman University. Visit his website at www.ryanfraser.org or blog at www.ryannoelfraser.blogspot.com.

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Better Way Parenting

For parents who suspect, "there must be a better way", family unity.

Much of what is in this post will probably not be new to you.  But hopefully it will be a good reminder of how to create positive feelings and memories in your families.  Those positive experiences can strengthen you and your children as you go through the more difficult times.  Family unity is so important because everyone wants to be a part of something.  If children don’t feel their families are something special and important to be a part of, they will find other groups where they feel included and wanted.  Family unity can come from many different sources, and it’s okay if your family doesn’t do all of these things listed below.  I’m going to talk about traditions, family pride, and family culture as ways to build family unity.

Family Traditions

Most people have family traditions and know of their importance.  It means a lot to children to do the same thing each year at certain holidays or seasons.  Sometimes you will continue the traditions you or your spouse had growing up, and sometimes you will change them to fit your family’s needs.  It’s important to be deliberate (as opposed to sporadic) about these traditions – write them down and make a note to do them every year.  It doesn’t matter so much what you do or how many traditions you have, as long as you have something and do it consistently. Children will start to notice the traditions and look forward to them.

One yearly tradition we have enjoyed is having “special time” with each child.  Once a year we plan a one-on-one time between each parent and child (so 8 combinations in all) where the child can choose what to do. We used to do this more often, but as schedules got busier we felt like once a year was the right balance. It almost always involves a meal or a treat, and the other activities have ranged from visiting the nature center, going bowling, going for a bike ride, or going to the mall.  It is a designated time to talk individually with that child, build the relationship, show her how important she is, and give her an opportunity to talk about her life.  Hopefully we have good communication with our children throughout the year and keep up on what is going on with them, but knowing we have this once a year “check-in” is important to both us as parents and to the children.  It has been very rewarding and sometimes very meaningful.  It takes some advanced scheduling and prioritizing, but that demonstrates to the children that they are significant to us.  These same activities (going for a treat or on a bike ride) come up spontaneously throughout the year, but there is something powerful about a scheduled event for the child to look forward to.

Another annual tradition that has been worthwhile to us is reviewing our Family Timeline.  We do this once a year at one of our weekly family meetings, around the time of our wedding anniversary.   We put a long line of masking tape across the carpet and set papers with different years at intervals.  We place pictures, scrapbook pages, and other mementos along the tape to designate the important events in our family: our wedding (the creation of our family), graduations, moves, births and baptisms of children, anything that has importance.  We talk about these events and what they meant to us.  My husband and I tell stories about how we met and about our wedding day.  It is so fun to share these things with our children and teach them about the creation and building of our wonderful family.  We usually end up looking through all the scrapbooks, talking, laughing, and reminiscing.

It is also beneficial to have a tradition of creating and reviewing family and individual goals.  This could be done at the beginning of the calendar year or the school year.  Goals help your family define where they are and where they want to go.  We all know the importance of articulating our goals and setting a vision for what we want to do and achieve in life.  Family and individual goals can be long term (all family members will go to college), and these can be reviewed every year.  Short term goals can be extrapolated from the long term goals (get 3.8 GPA, for example), and other short term goals can be identified, also (such as, learn to ski).

In addition to annual family traditions, there are also weekly and daily family traditions.  Going to church, having a family meeting, or going for a Saturday bike ride can be some of your weekly family traditions.  Daily traditions might include regular family dinner; a routine for waking up, saying goodbye, or going to bed; or family prayer.  Being purposeful about these smaller, more frequent traditions means making them a priority and making them a meaningful part of your family.  All these activities will provide positive interactions between you and your children and become the fabric of who your family is.

Family Pride

The next category of family unity is family pride or family identity.  This involves creating an individualized spirit for your family and getting your children excited to be a part of it.  One idea to build family pride is to have a family motto.  The family motto and other elements of family identity can be decided upon and reinforced in your Family Meetings.   Because we have four daughters, our family motto is, “Sisters forever, friends for life.”  It reminds us of our uniqueness in having all girls, and how we can and will be friends for our lifetime and a family forever.  I have the girls say it every morning as we have hugs and prayers before going out the door to school.  Some families also create a family flag, song, cheer, or mission statement, depending on the personalities and desires of the family members.  Corporations know the importance of mission statements and mottos to give all those involved with the company a sense of pride and togetherness, as well as a vision for where they are going and what their goals are.

Beyond our main family motto we also have 6 family values.  We created these based on our family interests and priorities and things we hoped our family would become.  Some of them are: Hoelzers love to learn! Hoelzers are hilarious! Hoelzers are happy!  These add to our family identity and help our children feel a part of something bigger than themselves.  They have responsibilities to this family and they receive benefits from being a part of it.  I can refer to these values in various circumstances for motivation and positive reminders.  For example, if a child doesn’t want to go to school I can say, “Hoelzers love to learn! The best place to learn new things is at school.”

Family Culture

The last method for building family unity that I want to talk about is creating your family culture.  You create a family culture by doing your regular, everyday things, whether you are aware of it or not!  What types of foods you eat, what songs you sing, what topics you discuss at dinner, these all combine to make up who you are as a family.  There are many ways to build a positive family culture, if you will be aware of and take advantage of the opportunities.  You can sing songs with your children while doing dishes, doing hair, in the car, or brushing teeth.  Children love music and singing teaches them a lot about speech patterns and sentence structure, as well as creates positive feelings.  I like to sing “positive message” songs to young children, such as “When We’re Helping, We’re Happy.”  Sometimes I make up words to familiar tunes to teach or reinforce a positive behavior.

You can learn new songs or poems as a family while traveling.  You can continuously be looking for ways to teach children new things or tell them stories.  I’m not very good at making up stories, so I often resort to books I’ve read or movies I’ve seen.  It’s a fun and creative challenge to take the story down to their developmental level! It’s also important to tell them stories about yourself and other family members.  See more about this in an upcoming post titled the Power of Family History .

Part of the family culture is also the home environment.  Family pictures and other pictures or important quotes on the wall and around the house can be silent teachers.  You don’t have to say, “Our family is important” because the presence of the pictures will say it for you.  The same goes for displaying children’s artwork or family history mementos.  Walk through your house and ask yourself, What message is this room giving my children?  What can they learn from just looking around?  This is the environment your children will be in for many hours of most days of their lives.  Make sure what they see around them is giving them messages you want them to receive.

Doing all these things to create family unity shows your children they are important to you and that your family matters.  Children feel safe and secure knowing that they are a part of something important and fun and that traditions and activities will be the same week to week, year to year.

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Unity in Diversity Essay for Students and Children

500+ words essay on unity in diversity.

Unity in Diversity is a concept that signifies unity among individuals who have certain differences among them. These differences can be on the basis of culture, language, ideology, religion , sect, class, ethnicity, etc. Furthermore, the existence of this concept has been since time immemorial. Since then, it has been used by a variety of political and social organizations to symbolize unity among various persons or communities. People from many cultures, religious beliefs, and social statuses coexisting in peace and love is a prime illustration of “Unity in Diversity.” People have consistently shown this praiseworthy behaviour almost everywhere on Earth . The concept has certainly resulted in the ethical and moral evolution of humanity.

Unity in Diversity

The phrase “Unity in Diversity” refers to harmony and peace. It is employed among various groups to ensure that tolerance is uniform. Caste, creed, race, and nationality are all examples of diversity. Physical, cultural, linguistic, and political differences are also included in unity in diversity.

It educates all humans and living beings to unify and find methods to bond with one another despite their differences. This will create an environment in which individuals can coexist harmoniously. “Unity in Diversity” is a long-standing concept that may be traced back to Western and Eastern traditions.

Unity in Diversity in India

The existence of oneness despite numerous distinctions is the meaning of unity in variety. India is one of the excellent examples one can learn to understand the concept of Unity in diversity. We can clearly observe that people of all religions, creeds, castes, dialects, cultures, lifestyles, dressing sense, faith in God, rituals of worship, and so on coexist peacefully under one roof, i.e. in one country of India. We can never forget the liberation movements led by Indians of all faiths, religions and castes to establish India as an independent country. In India, the struggle for freedom is a magnificent example of unity in diversity.

India is the world’s largest and most populous country, home to people of various religions such as Hinduism, Buddhism, Islam, Sikhism, Jainism, Christianity, and Parsees, all of which believe in the same Dharma and Karma doctrine. The Indian society is god-fearing by nature, believing in soul purification, reincarnation, salvation, heaven’s luxury, and hell’s punishments. People here celebrate their religious holidays (Holi, Diwali, Eid, Christmas, Good Friday, Mahavir Jayanti, Buddha Jayanti, Ganesh Chaturthi and so on) in a very peaceful manner, without causing harm to other religious people.

In India, Hindi is the mother tongue, but many other dialects and languages are spoken by people of various religions and regions (such as English, Urdu, Sanskrit, Bhojpuri, Bihari, Punjabi, Marathi, Bengali, Odiya, Gujarati, Malayali, Kashmiri, and so on); however, everyone is proud to be a citizen of great India.

The story of India’s unity amid variety is remarkable because it conveys a clear message that the country is more powerful than any religion or community in particular. Around 1.3 billion people live in harmony and contentment. With the world’s second-largest population of numerous ethnic and religious groupings, India is now the most important secular country, with a distinct character of unity in diversity.

Advantages of Unity in Diversity

First of all, following Unity in Diversity implies an interaction between many types of individuals. These individuals will probably have certain differences among them. This would occur also in workplaces, schools, public places, etc. Most noteworthy, working with diverse people provides an opportunity for exposure. Furthermore, this interaction would build up a tolerance in people. Hence, people would respect the opinion of others.

Unity in Diversity certainly enhances the quality of teamwork. This is because of the development of trust and bonding among people. As such the coordination and cooperation becomes very efficient. Consequently, the rate of completion of projects significantly increases.

In the world of business, a new principle is being followed. This principle is to think global and act locally. The reason for using this principle by companies is different social and cultural traditions. This principle is certainly a victory for the concept of Unity in Diversity. Also, more and more companies are doing business in different regions of the World.

The concept of Unity in Diversity is effective in solving various social problems . This is possible as diverse people tend to know each other. Consequently, this increases mutual respect among the people.

Unity in Diversity is very useful for a diverse country. Above all, the concept allows people of different religions, cultures, castes, to live together peacefully. The belief in Unity in Diversity certainly reduces the chances of riots and disturbances.

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Unity in Diversity in Politics

The phrase Unity in Diversity has become a symbol of Canadian multiculturalism. Adélard Godbout, Premier of Quebec, first used this phrase in Canada. Canada certainly is an excellent example of Unity in Diversity. Above all, there is very low racism in Canada. Furthermore, the people of Canada are warm and friendly. They are very welcoming of foreigners in Canada. There are almost no incidents of hate speech and discrimination against foreigners in Canada.

The European Union, in 2000, adopted Unity in Diversity as its official motto. Above all, this was in reference to many diverse Nations of the European Union. This diversity of European Union member states was due to differences in culture. Furthermore, the adoption of Unity in Diversity as a motto shows unity. It shows Europeans have come together irrespective of differences.

India is another brilliant example of Unity in Diversity . In India, people of diverse religions, cultures, castes, sects, etc. have been living together. Furthermore, they have been living together for many centuries. This certainly shows the intense tolerance and unity of the Indian people. Hence, India is a country that perfectly demonstrates Unity in Diversity.

In conclusion, Unity in Diversity is an integral part of ethics and morality. The concept is certainly essential for the future progress of human society. People must display faith in this concept. Above all, they must keep aside feelings of racism , discrimination, and oppression. Without Unity in Diversity, the demise of humanity will certainly happen.

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Q1 How Unity in Diversity enhances the quality of teamwork?

A1 Unity in Diversity certainly enhances the quality of teamwork. This is because Unity in Diversity causes the development of trust and bonding among people. This ultimately results in significantly increasing the rate of completion of projects.

Q2 Why India is a brilliant example of Unity in Diversity?

A2 India is certainly a brilliant example of Unity in Diversity. This is because India has people of diverse religions, cultures, castes, sects, etc. Above all, these people have been living together peacefully for many centuries.  Within a kilometer, you can discover mosques, temples, churches, and other religious buildings.

Q3. How can one sustain unity in the presence of diversity?

A3 . To keep unity in the variety by accepting other people’s choices, letting others express their opinions, and continually interacting with others without questioning their religion, caste, or financial strength. Unity in diversity can also be preserved by raising knowledge about the value of unity in diversity and incorporating the notion into primary education. Also, through instilling tolerance in all people, regardless of their culture, traditions, or values.

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Essay on Family Unity And Moral Values

Family unity and moral values are two essential aspects that contribute to the overall well-being and happiness of individuals and society as a whole. In today's fast-paced and individualistic world, it is crucial to recognize the significance of these elements and strive to cultivate them within our families.

First and foremost, family unity plays a pivotal role in creating a strong support system and fostering a sense of belonging. When family members come together, they provide emotional support, encouragement, and a safe space for each other. This unity helps individuals navigate through life's challenges and provides a sense of security and stability. Moreover, a united family is more likely to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts amicably, and make collective decisions that benefit everyone involved. This unity not only strengthens the bond between family members but also sets a positive example for future generations.

Furthermore, moral values are the guiding principles that shape our behavior and interactions with others. They serve as a compass, helping us distinguish right from wrong and make ethical choices. Within the family unit, moral values are instilled from an early age and play a crucial role in shaping the character and integrity of individuals. By teaching and practicing values such as honesty, respect, empathy, and responsibility, families contribute to the development of morally upright individuals who can contribute positively to society. Moreover, moral values provide a framework for individuals to make decisions that align with their beliefs and principles, even in the face of external pressures or temptations.

In today's rapidly changing world, it is essential to prioritize family unity and moral values. The increasing prevalence of technology and social media has led to a decline in face-to-face interactions and a shift towards individualism. However, by consciously investing time and effort into strengthening family bonds, we can counteract these negative influences. Regular family activities, such as shared meals, game nights, or outings, can provide opportunities for meaningful connections and foster a sense of togetherness. Additionally, open and honest communication within the family allows for the discussion of values and encourages individuals to express their thoughts and concerns freely.

In conclusion, family unity and moral values are integral to the well-being and happiness of individuals and society. By prioritizing these aspects, we can create a strong support system, instill important values, and foster a sense of belonging. It is crucial to recognize the importance of family unity and moral values in today's world and actively work towards cultivating them within our families. Only by doing so can we ensure a brighter future for ourselves and generations to come.

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Essay on Ancient Rome and United States Morals and Values

Ancient Rome and the United States have both been influential civilizations in their respective time periods. While they are separated by thousands of years and vast cultural differences, there are some striking similarities in the morals and values that both societies hold dear. One of the key similarities between Ancient Rome and the United States is the importance placed on the rule of law and justice. In Ancient Rome, the concept of "law and order" was central to the functioning of society. The Romans believed in the importance of upholding the law and ensuring that justice was served. This can be seen in the development of a complex legal system that governed all aspects of Roman life, from property rights to criminal behavior. Similarly, in the United States, the rule of law is enshrined in the Constitution and is a fundamental principle of the American legal system. The United States also places a high value on justice and fairness, as evidenced by the existence of a robust judicial system that is designed to ensure that all individuals are treated equally under the law. Another shared value between Ancient Rome and the United States is the importance of civic duty and responsibility. In Ancient Rome, citizenship was seen as a privilege that came with certain obligations, such as military service and participation in the political process. Similarly, in the United States, citizens are expected to fulfill their civic duties by voting, serving on juries, and participating in community activities. Both societies recognize the importance of active citizenship in maintaining a functioning democracy and ensuring the well-being of the community as a whole. Finally, both Ancient Rome and the United States place a high value on family and community. In Ancient Rome, the family was the basic unit of society, and strong family ties were seen as essential for the stability and prosperity of the state. Similarly, in the United States, the family is often seen as the foundation of society, and the importance of strong family relationships is emphasized in American culture. Both societies also place a high value on community and social cohesion, recognizing that a strong sense of community is essential for the well-being of all individuals. In conclusion, while Ancient Rome and the United States are separated by time and culture, there are some striking similarities in the morals and values that both societies hold dear. The importance of the rule of law, civic duty, and family and community are all values that are shared between these two influential civilizations. By recognizing and understanding these shared values, we can gain a deeper appreciation for the ways in which our own society has been shaped by the lessons of the past....

• Cultural Heritage and Preservation
• Political Economy
• History of the United States

Five Important Moral Values Essay

Moral values are the foundation of a just and compassionate society. They guide our actions and shape our character, influencing how we interact with others and the world around us. Here, we explore five essential moral values that are integral to fostering harmony and integrity in individuals and communities. Firstly, integrity stands as a cornerstone of moral character. It encompasses honesty, transparency, and consistency in one's actions and principles. Integrity requires individuals to adhere to their beliefs and values even when faced with adversity or temptation. By upholding integrity, individuals earn trust and respect, fostering genuine connections and meaningful relationships with others. Secondly, compassion is a fundamental moral value that promotes empathy and kindness towards others. It involves understanding and sharing the feelings of others, coupled with a sincere desire to alleviate their suffering. Compassion inspires acts of generosity, selflessness, and solidarity, nurturing a sense of unity and interconnectedness within society. Through compassion, individuals cultivate a deeper understanding of human dignity and the importance of supporting one another in times of need. Thirdly, responsibility emphasizes the importance of accountability and conscientiousness in one's actions. It entails taking ownership of one's decisions and their consequences, whether positive or negative. Responsible individuals strive to fulfill their obligations and duties towards themselves, others, and the environment. By embracing responsibility, individuals contribute to the betterment of society and promote trustworthiness and reliability in their interactions. Fourthly, fairness underscores the principle of equity and justice in all aspects of life. It entails treating others impartially and without discrimination, regardless of differences in race, gender, or socioeconomic status. Fairness promotes equality of opportunity and access to resources, ensuring that everyone has a chance to thrive and succeed. By upholding fairness, individuals uphold the principles of justice and equality, fostering a more inclusive and harmonious society. Finally, empathy encompasses the ability to understand and share the feelings of others, fostering deeper connections and mutual understanding. It involves listening attentively, showing genuine concern, and offering support to those in distress. Empathy promotes tolerance, acceptance, and cooperation, breaking down barriers and promoting unity amidst diversity. By cultivating empathy, individuals cultivate a more compassionate and empathetic society, where understanding and acceptance prevail. In conclusion, moral values play a crucial role in shaping the character of individuals and the fabric of society. Integrity, compassion, responsibility, fairness, and empathy serve as guiding principles that promote harmony, justice, and mutual respect. By embracing these moral values, individuals contribute to creating a more just, compassionate, and harmonious world for present and future generations....

• Philosophers
• Philosophical Concepts

Morals, Values, and Ethics Essays

Morals, values, and ethics are foundational aspects of human behavior and societal structure. They form the cornerstone upon which individuals and communities build their principles and conduct. While often used interchangeably, these terms encompass distinct concepts that guide human actions and interactions. Morals refer to the fundamental beliefs and principles that dictate what is right and wrong. These are deeply ingrained within individuals and are influenced by various factors such as upbringing, culture, religion, and personal experiences. Morals serve as internal compasses, guiding individuals in making decisions and determining their behavior. They shape the individual's sense of integrity and contribute to their overall character. Values, on the other hand, are broader concepts that encompass what individuals deem important or desirable in life. These can include principles such as honesty, compassion, justice, and loyalty. Values are not necessarily tied to specific actions but rather reflect the priorities and ideals that individuals uphold. While morals dictate right and wrong, values determine what individuals prioritize and strive for in their lives. Ethics, meanwhile, encompass the principles of conduct that govern interactions within a society or organization. Ethics provide a framework for determining the appropriateness of actions and behaviors in various contexts. They often involve considerations of fairness, responsibility, accountability, and respect for others. Ethics extend beyond individual beliefs and values to establish standards of behavior that promote harmony, justice, and the greater good within a community. Together, morals, values, and ethics play integral roles in shaping human behavior and fostering social cohesion. They provide guidelines for individuals to navigate complex moral dilemmas and make decisions that align with their principles. Additionally, they form the basis for establishing norms and standards within societies, ensuring order and stability. In conclusion, morals, values, and ethics are interconnected concepts that influence human behavior and societal norms. While morals dictate what is right and wrong on an individual level, values encompass broader principles that individuals prioritize in their lives. Ethics, meanwhile, provide a framework for determining appropriate conduct within communities and organizations. By adhering to these principles, individuals contribute to the creation of a more ethical and harmonious society....

• Philosophical Works

Family Essay : The Meaning Of The Word Family

Family Essay: The Meaning of the Word Family, a word that carries immense significance and holds a special place in our hearts. It is a word that evokes a sense of belonging, love, and support. The meaning of the word "family" goes beyond the traditional definition of blood relations. It encompasses a broader concept of people who share a deep bond, trust, and care for one another. In this essay, we will explore the true essence of family and the various forms it can take. First and foremost, family is a source of unconditional love and support. It is a sanctuary where we can be our true selves without fear of judgment. Family members are there for us through thick and thin, providing a shoulder to lean on during times of hardship and celebrating our triumphs and successes. They offer a sense of stability and security, creating a nurturing environment where we can grow and flourish. Family also plays a vital role in shaping our values, beliefs, and identity. Through our interactions with family members, we learn important life lessons and develop a moral compass. They teach us about empathy, compassion, and the importance of integrity. Our family provides a foundation from which we build our character and navigate the complexities of the world. Moreover, family extends beyond the confines of biological relationships. It can encompass chosen family, such as close friends or mentors, who become an integral part of our lives. These chosen family members may not be connected by blood, but they share a deep emotional bond and provide the same love and support as biological family. In today's diverse society, the definition of family has expanded to include blended families, adoptive families, and same-sex families, among others. These variations of family highlight the importance of love and connection over traditional notions of blood ties. In an ever-changing world, family acts as a constant anchor. It serves as a refuge from the chaos and uncertainties of life. Family gatherings and traditions foster a sense of unity and reinforce the bonds that hold us together. Whether it's celebrating festivals, sharing meals, or engaging in meaningful conversations, these moments create cherished memories that last a lifetime. In conclusion, the word "family" holds a profound meaning that transcends biological relations. It represents a web of love, support, and connection that sustains us throughout our lives. Family molds our character, provides a sense of belonging, and offers a sanctuary where we can be our authentic selves. Whether biological or chosen, family is an integral part of our existence, bringing joy, comfort, and a deep sense of purpose. Let us cherish and celebrate the beauty of family, appreciating the diverse forms it can take, and the invaluable role it plays in our lives. (Word Count: 369)...

• Emotions & Feelings
• Life Experiences

The Family Disease Model And The Multisystemic Family Therapy Model Essay

The Family Disease Model And The Multisystemic Approach The Family Disease Model and the Multisystemic Approach are two prominent frameworks utilized in understanding and treating various behavioral and mental health issues within the context of family systems. Both approaches recognize the interconnectedness of individuals within families and the impact of familial dynamics on individual well-being. While they share some similarities, they also have distinct characteristics that shape their application in therapeutic interventions. The Family Disease Model views problematic behaviors or mental health disorders within a family member as symptomatic of underlying familial dysfunction. It posits that these issues are not isolated to the individual but are manifestations of broader family dynamics and intergenerational patterns. Rooted in systems theory, this model emphasizes the reciprocal influence between family members and the need to address systemic issues to facilitate individual healing and recovery. In contrast, the Multisystemic Approach expands the scope of intervention beyond the family unit to include various systems that influence an individual's behavior and functioning. Developed primarily for adolescents with delinquent behavior, this approach recognizes the impact of social, peer, school, and community systems on adolescent development. By targeting multiple systems simultaneously, it aims to create comprehensive interventions that address the diverse factors contributing to behavioral problems. One key distinction between the two models lies in their focus on intervention strategies. The Family Disease Model often employs family therapy techniques, emphasizing communication skills, boundary setting, and conflict resolution within the family system. Therapists work collaboratively with family members to identify and modify dysfunctional patterns, promote empathy and understanding, and foster healthy relationships. On the other hand, the Multisystemic Approach utilizes a broader range of interventions tailored to the specific needs of the individual and their various ecological systems. These interventions may include individual therapy, group therapy, skills training, case management, and collaboration with other service providers. Therapists employ a combination of cognitive-behavioral, ecological, and systems-oriented techniques to address the complex interplay of factors influencing the individual's behavior. In conclusion, both the Family Disease Model and the Multisystemic Approach offer valuable frameworks for understanding and addressing behavioral and mental health issues within the context of family systems. While the Family Disease Model focuses primarily on familial dynamics and systemic interventions, the Multisystemic Approach adopts a broader perspective that considers the influence of multiple systems on individual functioning. By integrating principles from both models, therapists can develop holistic interventions that promote healing and resilience across various levels of the individual's ecological system....

• Renewable Energy Sources

TV Families and Real Families Essay

The portrayal of families on television has long been a subject of fascination and scrutiny. While TV families are often idealized and exaggerated, real families are diverse and complex, each with their own unique dynamics and challenges. This essay aims to explore the similarities and differences between TV families and real families, shedding light on the impact of media representation on our perceptions of family life. One of the most striking differences between TV families and real families is the portrayal of conflicts and resolutions. In TV families, conflicts are often neatly resolved within the span of an episode, if not sooner. Characters learn valuable lessons, and harmony is restored by the end of the show. However, in real families, conflicts can be messy, prolonged, and sometimes unresolved. The dynamics of real families are shaped by a multitude of factors, including individual personalities, cultural backgrounds, and life experiences, which makes conflicts more complex and challenging to resolve. Moreover, TV families tend to be portrayed as more homogeneous and idealized than real families. In TV shows, family members often share similar values, personalities, and interests, creating a sense of unity and coherence that may not always reflect the diversity found in real families. Real families are composed of individuals with unique identities, beliefs, and aspirations, leading to a wider range of experiences and perspectives within the family unit. Another important difference lies in the portrayal of daily life and responsibilities. TV families are often depicted in aspirational settings with spacious homes, glamorous lifestyles, and minimal attention to mundane tasks. In contrast, real families navigate through the complexities of daily life, juggling work, household chores, and personal responsibilities. The portrayal of real families in television often fails to capture the everyday struggles and triumphs that define the real family experience. Despite these differences, there are also similarities between TV families and real families. Both are centered around the themes of love, support, and the pursuit of happiness. TV families, despite their idealized nature, often convey messages of love and togetherness, which are universal values that resonate with real families. Moreover, both TV families and real families experience joy, laughter, and moments of bonding that contribute to the strength of their relationships. In conclusion, the portrayal of TV families and real families reflects the complex interplay between media representation and lived experiences. While TV families may offer entertainment and escapism, real families provide a rich tapestry of diversity, challenges, and love. Understanding the differences and similarities between the two can offer valuable insights into the impact of media on our perceptions of family life. This essay has explored the differences and similarities between TV families and real families, shedding light on the impact of media representation on our perceptions of family life. It has delved into the idealized nature of TV families, the diversity of real families, and the universal themes that bind both together. By examining these aspects, we gain a deeper understanding of the complex interplay between media representation and lived experiences, and the influence it has on our perceptions of family life....

• Clinical Psychology
• Environmental Protection

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